:: Taiwan DMC ::

Congrats to DJ Sycho for cuming in 3rd in DMC back in Taiwan recently.

Props to u SY.

His broken beats and craps

some people dont like it

cuz you hang out in the street but you my boyfriend

you've always been here for me

this love is serious

no matter what people think

im gon be here for ya and i don't care what they say

some people don't like it

cuz you hang out in the street

but you my boyfriend

you've always been here for me

i luv tha thug in ya

no matter wat people think

im gon be here for ya and i don't care what they say

:: Polka Dots and Stripes ::

Feeling retro-ish today.

so i put on the polka dots and strips outfit.

does it match?!

well watever it seems to be la kn. dah tak kuasa terus.

all must have caused by the sleeping early disorder. and im back to skipping lunch and having the normal power nap. which kinda helps me alil to stay awake thro out the boring afternoon which stretch til 630pm.

(explains the 2nd entry for the day)...

Blame me for staying dat long due to catching up with
plenty of work to do after 5 days of absence last week and at the same time in need of extra cash to flow in my right and left pocket.

With plenty of bdays coming this sept and adding to its our 7th Year Anniversary.

Den come October its Hubby's 24th bday

plus

preparation for Raya need to be done. Meaning I've yet to send my red songket for have it tailor made. Was browsing thro the Perkahwinan Magazine just now and the sudden urge to give the favourite aunty a visit at TKC to see if she can make wonders to

my wild imagination for certain cuts and fittings.

*Dreams*

JUICE DJ Quest 2006

JUICE Magazing Presents
Pioneer Battle JUICE DJ Quest 2006

Event starts 830pm, followed by Itchi(Juice DJ Quest Winner 2005) and Aldrin.

By invitation only.

Hubby won 2 invites for this friday and yeahness! Get to watch this DJ Battle before the ultimate DMC on eve of National Day. Dats gonna be another yeahness for me cuz this year Hubby taking part and this yr will be the 2nd year i catch DMC Singapore and DJ Cash Money will be spinning for the after party. I did not had enuff of Zoukout last year so TRIPLE yeahness for me.

In need of a short trip. So planning to head down KL end of August. Hope its confirm. After all dat sickness, I'm revived and all rejuvenated and ready to hit the gym, the swimming pool and also the beach.

Random Notes

been sick since tuesday and on mc since dat day. happy note. i was not werking for 5days. wee! sadly i'm dead beat. feeling so sick. lost of voice. mind u dat it was sexy. ahakz. high fever. yada yada yada. and now all feelin much beta. but body is aching real bad. on the other note it wont stop me from goin to Aloha Changti tonite. Its my lil cuz's bday. and the theme is Old Skul 70's. so ppl are to come in dress code. Those note. well. maybe juz plain bored or nutin to wear. mine was a last minute thing due to the sickness.

Just last sat, we had our gathering for his absence. but today we're gathering again for Marissa's 12th Bday. Uncle would really like this, we hope. coz he adores kids so much.. Well, gonna get doll up and dandy for tonite. Hope to get kewl pictures and happy moment today. its been awhile.... and i miss gathering with my family and cusins..... toodles.

lastly, I would like to send my condolence to my gf. Share.. may god bless ur dad's soul...amin. i love u gerl. and sori i was not able to attend his funeral due to my sickness.

Last Goodbye

I was feeling half hearted to go to sentosa on Saturday. and true enuff i made my way back as soon as i heard the news. i was shocked and soon my phn started to ring non stop.

sunday morning. plc was crowded. ppl were outside and inside of the house. everyone was crying and as soon i stepped in the living room, mom made her way to have a gd look at him. i saw his face. smiling peacefully and i started to tear.

when it was time. everyone gathered together and took a good last look at him. lying there before us. close relatives started to cry. which includes me. i was much sadden due to he and family wasnt there on my engagement day. due to dad-to-dad issue.however im so kewl with his daughter. but due to some issues. she wasnt there to witness my special day. i was so mad at my dad for being wat he is. bt no matter wat. he's my dad.

i pitied mom so much. i donno how she feels inside coz mom has always been the introvert person. she don really express out her feelings to others. especially anger. dats the reason y others love her. especiali my dear cusins and my dear aunts. i looked into her eyes. and still i donno how she feel. i took a gd look at her face and gustures. still im clueless. Watever she's feeling. i was crying for her.

i noe she must be praying hard asking for forgiveness from him. if only she had done anything wrong to him all her life. beg for forgiveness from him if her 3 sons, 3 daughter in laws, her 8 grandchilren, her only daughter and her husband had done anything wrong.

brothers were all calm being the man. dad was out of sight while i was tearing like a baby.. i made my way home. smsing his daughter that i've left and told her to take gd care of herself and family.

His daughter is my cusin which means he's my uncle and my mom is his younger sister.

Taken from Matilda's Blog:-
He was in the bus, and had only 3 more stops before reaching home to his wife when he collapsed onto the person seated next to him. They called the ambulance, they tried to revive him and they failed.

10 Things Happy Couples Do

By Mark Goulston, M.D.

Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die. In a recent column, you discovered the 10 relationship mistakes to avoid. Now discover the 10 things that happy couples do:

1. Go to bed at the same time.
   Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn't wait to go to bed with each other to make love. Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.
2. Cultivate common interests.
   After the passion settles down, it's common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don't minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.
3. Walk hand in hand or side by side.
   Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it's more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.
4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.
   If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can't resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.
5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong.
   If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.
6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work.
   Our skin has a memory of "good touch" (loved), "bad touch" (abused) and "no touch" (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the "good touch," which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.
7. Say "I love you" and "Have a good day" every morning.
   This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.
8. Say "Good night" every night, regardless of how you feel.
   This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.
9. Do a "weather" check during the day.
   Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you're more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.
10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.
    Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact -- hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

Even if these actions don't come naturally, happy couples stick with them until they do become a part of their relationship. They know that it takes 30 days for a change in behaviour to become a habit, and a minimum of six months for a habit to become a way of life and love.

Dr. Goulston is the co-founder of CouplesCompany.com and the author of The 6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship (Putnam, 2001).

"Life is not about what you've gained,

it's about what you've done"

Good & Bad News

Today itself. I received 3 death news.

1. Ida (Hubby's colleague) lost her dad today.
2. Farah (my cusin) lost her aunt this morning.
3. Ishak Ahmat (Suria comedian) passed away in Jakarta.

The Almighty Allah is taking away the ones he loves most. May Allah bless their souls and forgive their sins. Amin.

The good news is. Congratulation to you. Heard u're getting married this 6th August 06. Wish I culd congratulate u myself. but im just too shy to do so. or WAIT. I cant be bothered. So please stop eyeing on me. coz u're gonna be someone's husband. Bah!

Ah-lianish

wore brown velvet blazer to work and received a remark from a malay guy fren.

"eh asal macam ah-lian nie? .."

I still get some chinese aunties talking to me in mandarin. Do I look like chinese still? Perhaps a tanned one. Wat I heard from ppl here that at 1st glance i don look malay. WATEVER.

Siti Masila made me do this.

She made me do this. So here it goes:-

Name 20 people you can think of right now. Don't read the question(s) until you named the 20 people. At the end of this choose 5 people to do this.

(1) Hasrin aka Arin Hirata - my DJ Ruxta
(2) Zullaiha aka Zulie - BEST Capricorn GF
(3) Maria aka Matilda - my lil cookie. hearts her.
(4) Nur Qistina - Lesbian partner 1(GFF1)
(5) Amelia aka Amy - rock chic (GFF2)
(6) Yantee - Arrogrant chic (GFF3)
(7) Share Bear - cuddly bear with dimples (GFF4)
(8) Taufik aka Em - Irritating fren with LG Chocolate Hp
(9) Sham - Loud speaker. Safety First.
(10) Wahimahwati aka Kat - Dancing and Giggling queen
(11) Anna - New foundfren. Hairi's gf.
(12) Nur Farina - Bello GF. Lesbian partner 2
(13) Aisha - Pre skul teacher
(14) Ely Hartina - Speaks fluent Chinese
(15) Farahiyah - cusin sis getting married this dec
(16) Fairuz - cusin bro getting engaged this aug
(17) Lediati - cusin same age as me currently dating hubby's cusin. Haha.
(18) Sufyan - Gd guyfren since Sec skul
(19) Lediana - Irritating cusin sis who loves to make fun of me
(20) Siti Masila - hubby's baby sis and she's da one who wants me to do this.

How do you meet #14 (Ely) ?
Way back when I was working in Starbucks LT. She was my shift manager and she pampered me alot and often back me up when Taufik bullies me.

What would you do if you never met #1 (Arin my hubby) ?
Haha. If i neva met him 7yrs ago. I probably be 'single' still looking for the right one. Glad i met him though. Lurve u hubby!

What if #9 (Sham) and #20 (Siti Masila) dated?
It will be kewl. Reali. Confirm to be exciting. More drama and all. He'll shower her with love and gifts. : ) funny thing is both staying in CCK Ave 4. =p
Then again. Sila is happier now with Hafiz.(my childhoodfren).

would #6(Yantee) and #17 (Lediati) makes a good couple?
And make a lesbian partner. Haha. i don think so....

Describe #3(Maria).
My lil cookie moster. my chilli padi. My closest cusin sis although we're 5yrs apart. She's smart, talented, a thinker and she uses words that can BLOW ur mind fo sho.

Is #8 (Taufik aka Em) attractive?
hmm.. Attractive? Yea. Quite. with the kucing face.. ahakz!

Describe #7 (Share Bear) .
Love her dimples. Frens since NP days. Very sembarang kind of gerl. Loves to sing. Nice voice. the Only Gf having car license. Cuddly. and she loves purple.

Do you know #12 (Nur Farina) family members?
Nope. Only her 1st bro. spoke to him before when i was in Liat Towers.

What would you do if #18 (Sufyan) confess to you that he/she likes you?
o god. haha. 1st of all. He did this before. but like i said it go way back. when i was in hmm.. sec 4/5? i tink. I told him honestly that i'm attached to Arin and told him to move on. but its all gd now. we're still gdfrens. and glad u found Lala.. : )

What language does #15 (Farahiyah ) speaks?
English and Malay.

Who is #14 (Ely Hartina) going out with?
Seriously No idea!. Miss Ely so much... : (

How old is #16 (Fairuz ) ?
This 18th July officially 24!

When was the last tyme u spoke to #13 (Aisha)?
Last saturday. She called to ask for my account number.

Who is #2(Zulie) favourite band / singer?
She is so into PCD now. But she loves Eminem. =p

Would You ever date #4 (Qistina)?
OF COURSE. she's my lesbian partner. like i mentioned.. Haha. but ppl say we looked alike. do we?

Would you ever date #1 (Arin)?
Of coz. my HOT boy. he's tall. tanned. stylish. talented. use to have curly hair.. Arrgghh. to DIE for!

Is #15 (Farahiyah ) single?
Nope. Engaged and getting married this december.

Is #19 (Lediana) your good friend?
She's my cusin!..... and yea we're kewl. despite she loves to start a silly joke on me and everyone loves to laugh at me. hmmp!

What's #10 (Wahimahwati aka Kat) last name?
Wahimahwati Bte Yakub.

Would you be in a relationship with #11(Anna)?
Hmm. Yes. if she don mind to be my lesbian partner no 3. so Anna how? Hehehe. =p

School of #3(Maria)
Primary skul - Naval base i think. Sec - OrchidPark. Currently - Lasalle

Where does #6 (Yantee) lives?
Bedok.

What's your favourite thing about #5(Amelia)?
Her perky attitude.

Have you seen #2(Zulie) naked before?
Haha. Nope. but i would love too.. ahahhaa..!! Kiddin!

And the 5 lucky ppl to do this are:-

1. Nur Qistina
2. Anna
3. Matilda
4. Sufyan
5. Ely

Sho'Down BBoy Battle

Music: Hip-Hop / R&B

DJ: Matt Crowhurst (DJ Tang) / Rattle / Will

VJ: Mo Selle

Venue: Main Arena

And let the B-BOYS battle!

New Face

use to think newpaper new face is whack and all. but not this yr. coz i got all excited for a fren who was shortlisted for today's audition. wow. seriously. with dat 'shakira' look with the hairdo, body to die for, sexy and well toned (due to sports and weightlifting).. who wuld say no. plus she's different in her own way. wish her gd luck and i'll be anxiously waiting for her msg today afta 5pm. arrggh. please take her in. *crossfinger*

8th August. DMC. Zouk. heats and finals. so gonna b there with hubby. wee! and Rouge is back. with none other den DJ Rough. been awhile since i step in der. its so cosy. lurve dat plc. not so cliche. *hinting maria. 29th July. how?*

All Good Things (Come To An End)

Germany Vs Italy was an expected game. I expected Italy to win it but didnt expect them to score at da last 2 minutes of the extra time. Well its all gd now. Next.. Portugal Vs France. ok. this is way too hard to predict. All these matches were so unpredictable. Last nite game explains everything. Gosh. lucky i did not bet on anitin. Fuh!

Last Friday had my pleasure doing some retail therapy. All worth it. Was all fun. Been awhile since I shop like as if I have loads of cash. If this month i get lucky. i mite go for another round of retail therapy. plus. hp bill need to be cleared and damn i need a new phn. so cant wait! Wee..

All gd things sure come to an end. commonly will be relationship. Love and frienship. It all happen and wen i recalled back. I've been experiencing this 'heartache' and still encountering it. Why when we're so close. we're too attached. then when we stop calling. it all stop THERE. no more Hi and Bye. we often find ourselves in a different werld. we talk bout different things coz we do different thing, like different thing. etc... i lost quite a number of frens. but truthfully. it doesnt make a great impact to me. becoz they did not play such a important role in my life.

but lately, an ending to a frenship with a fren coz me a lil trouble here and there. but thankfully. i got over it. i hope everything is ok for u. Fate bring us together. and Fate made us like this. i culd understand y you're nt interested to be my fren animore due to the heartache you're facing. still i find it foolish. but hey. its ur decision and i cant do aniting to stop dat. been awhile since i last contacted u and now i guess we're in our different world.

Flames to Dust, Lovers to friends

why do all good things come to an end