different people have different aspect in life, mission and vision. some are career-minded well some prefer to laze around. some prefer to shop and be a full time bitch instead. some prefer to study til Poly,Degree, Master, etc.. while some would really wanna settle down and have their own family.
well. typically. some might say dat malay girls prefer to be married early and bear children and stay home. be a great wife and mother. some choose to be this way while some was forced by their parents.
there were some views given to me. some commented dat im too young to be engaged. to have a husband in 2 yrs time. to have my own family and so on so forth...
I maybe old enuff but nt too young to get engage and have my own family soon. but my parents are not getting younger to see me walking that aisle either. stating the fact that i was in love with him 7 to 8 yrs ago. it took us 7 years to finally tie the knot.
Long relationship doesnt always ends with marriage and it doesnt mean short ones don make it.
we did not do this coz we have to but its because we want to.
doesnt mean married woman don have future and not career-minded. we are in the modern world. bt come on. u gotta admit. at somepoint of time u would really wanna settle down.
not now. bt at the age of 30 or so. u figure out the number.
After 7 yrs plus being together, i cant wait for our marriage. Preparing for GFs and cusins wedding made me wiser and at the same time it helps me to prepare myself better. i learnt from them alot.i hope i don fall in the same trap. most of all. Money is the root of all evil. trust me. they are! plus the dugaan is somewhat harder each time.
I may look like the typical malay girl. diamond ring on my right hand. walking hand in hand with my beloved fiance. happy together. but behind it all. happiness is something u need to work on.
Im no expert in relationship. i am still working on mine. we both are. im contented that we both found each other, fall in love and got engaged.
its all about wad u wanna do for urself; ur life; ur future.....
if u wanna continue study. go on and pursue the diploma of ur choice. u gotta talk things out to your parents. that education is more important to u now compared to marriage in 2-3 yrs time. don do things u don wish to do yet. most of all don regret it. if dats wat they had in mind for u. please do make the best to get out from it and instead of dissappointing them, give them your other opinions. like i suggested to u. hope they are willing to listen and accept ur decision. don cry out of misery and confusion. work ur way out. trust me. dats the only solution. crying wont make it any better.
while one of my gf who do not even know wad she want now, in life.
to her. cheer up and do some soul searching. we have nt been meeting up ever since the bf appear. not that i against the bf but i find it weird to accept that he's checking on her wenever she's wit me. she smsed me earlier this morning, well im glad she did. i was more egoistic. i didnt wanna sms her therefore i waited for her instead. reason. somehow i am 'forgotten' bt remembered wen NEEDED. since the new bf is around. well, i told myself that i was der when she's broke down and leading a single life. bt now dat she's 'attached', i would rather leave her alone. am i that bad?! well. i don care sometimes. still i wished her all da best and to take care of herself. im here whenever she needs me.
another gf of mine. did not get through the silkair interview. and now looking for a full time job.
im more open to her choices. infact i was able to crack my brain and give her some of the jobs i think suits her. well she did gave it a shot and send in her resume. now we just wait. while she keeps herself busy with Floorball practice for the upcoming April league and works part time on weekends. spend time with her bf, family and friends. she showed me another job advertisement earlier, bt i kinda dampen her hope on dat. reason i don think it suits her personality. and knowing her. i know she wont like it either. lets just wait for the reply from that fitness centre.
once again.its all about wad u wanna do for urself. i did had my own fall on career and wad i wanna do in life. instead it was an eye opener, to see and hear ppl come up to me on this issue.... im somehow glad dat i could help alil and i do wish for the best for my frens...
well. typically. some might say dat malay girls prefer to be married early and bear children and stay home. be a great wife and mother. some choose to be this way while some was forced by their parents.
there were some views given to me. some commented dat im too young to be engaged. to have a husband in 2 yrs time. to have my own family and so on so forth...
I maybe old enuff but nt too young to get engage and have my own family soon. but my parents are not getting younger to see me walking that aisle either. stating the fact that i was in love with him 7 to 8 yrs ago. it took us 7 years to finally tie the knot.
Long relationship doesnt always ends with marriage and it doesnt mean short ones don make it.
we did not do this coz we have to but its because we want to.
doesnt mean married woman don have future and not career-minded. we are in the modern world. bt come on. u gotta admit. at somepoint of time u would really wanna settle down.
not now. bt at the age of 30 or so. u figure out the number.
After 7 yrs plus being together, i cant wait for our marriage. Preparing for GFs and cusins wedding made me wiser and at the same time it helps me to prepare myself better. i learnt from them alot.i hope i don fall in the same trap. most of all. Money is the root of all evil. trust me. they are! plus the dugaan is somewhat harder each time.
I may look like the typical malay girl. diamond ring on my right hand. walking hand in hand with my beloved fiance. happy together. but behind it all. happiness is something u need to work on.
Im no expert in relationship. i am still working on mine. we both are. im contented that we both found each other, fall in love and got engaged.
its all about wad u wanna do for urself; ur life; ur future.....
if u wanna continue study. go on and pursue the diploma of ur choice. u gotta talk things out to your parents. that education is more important to u now compared to marriage in 2-3 yrs time. don do things u don wish to do yet. most of all don regret it. if dats wat they had in mind for u. please do make the best to get out from it and instead of dissappointing them, give them your other opinions. like i suggested to u. hope they are willing to listen and accept ur decision. don cry out of misery and confusion. work ur way out. trust me. dats the only solution. crying wont make it any better.
while one of my gf who do not even know wad she want now, in life.
to her. cheer up and do some soul searching. we have nt been meeting up ever since the bf appear. not that i against the bf but i find it weird to accept that he's checking on her wenever she's wit me. she smsed me earlier this morning, well im glad she did. i was more egoistic. i didnt wanna sms her therefore i waited for her instead. reason. somehow i am 'forgotten' bt remembered wen NEEDED. since the new bf is around. well, i told myself that i was der when she's broke down and leading a single life. bt now dat she's 'attached', i would rather leave her alone. am i that bad?! well. i don care sometimes. still i wished her all da best and to take care of herself. im here whenever she needs me.
another gf of mine. did not get through the silkair interview. and now looking for a full time job.
im more open to her choices. infact i was able to crack my brain and give her some of the jobs i think suits her. well she did gave it a shot and send in her resume. now we just wait. while she keeps herself busy with Floorball practice for the upcoming April league and works part time on weekends. spend time with her bf, family and friends. she showed me another job advertisement earlier, bt i kinda dampen her hope on dat. reason i don think it suits her personality. and knowing her. i know she wont like it either. lets just wait for the reply from that fitness centre.
once again.its all about wad u wanna do for urself. i did had my own fall on career and wad i wanna do in life. instead it was an eye opener, to see and hear ppl come up to me on this issue.... im somehow glad dat i could help alil and i do wish for the best for my frens...
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